What is the proper etiquette for refilling drinks?

The proper etiquette for refilling drinks involves checking frequently and refilling when glasses are low. This approach demonstrates attentiveness and consideration for the guests’ comfort and enjoyment. Maintaining a proactive service style ensures that guests are never left waiting for a beverage, which can enhance their overall dining experience. Being attentive to their needs by observing when their drinks are low allows for a seamless flow of service, contributing to a more pleasant atmosphere.

In contrast, refilling only when guests ask can interrupt conversations and may make it feel like the server is less attentive. Waiting for a quiet moment to refill may not address the guests' needs promptly, leading to potential disruptions of their experience. Refiling drinks only at the end of the meal disregards the ongoing nature of dining and hospitality, where guests are often engaged in prolonged conversation and may wish to continue enjoying drinks throughout their meal.